We’re going to do a series of posts into our explorations in anal sex.
The first step we took was educating ourselves into it, especially me. I didn’t want to hurt Eve in any way, so I decided to research a little into it with her.
We read many guides and watched a video training series called Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Anal Sex (which is also pretty hot by the way). All of this gave us a good understanding of what to expect and how to prepare.
We won’t do an in-depth guide because there are so many available already. But to summarise:
- Do some reading into the subject beforehand.
- Massage around the ass before inserting anything.
- Use fingers and small toys before trying to have sex.
- Let the person receiving anal sex play with themselves on their own first to get comfortable with the feeling.
- Stimulate the clit while playing with the ass.
- Go slow and let the receiver control how deep and how fast it goes.
- Use a lot of good quality anal lube.
- DON’T COPY PORN.